# Blog | Thoughts that matter > Thoughts, Stories, Opinions & Everyday Reflections ## Posts - [Simply Sansu Is My Long Cherished Dream](https://sansublogs.com/simply-sansu-my-long-cherished-dream/): Simply Sansu is a long-cherished dream that grew from faith, motherhood, career changes, and my desire to build something of my own. - [If I Were a Boy, I Would Have Wanted to Be a Woman](https://sansublogs.com/if-i-were-a-boy/): If I were a boy, I often wonder what freedoms I would have enjoyed differently. This is my personal reflection on freedom, travel, confidence, strength, and womanhood. - [We Can Remember Smells Too](https://sansublogs.com/we-can-remember-smells-too/): A simple smell can take us back years in an instant. These are some of the fragrances and smells that bring back my childhood, my mother, and memories I can never forget. - [There Is No Other Color as Sexy as Black](https://sansublogs.com/there-is-no-other-color-as-sexy-as-black/): Black is sometimes loved and sometimes disliked. For me, it is elegant, sexy, and easily my favorite color. - [Ancy Sojan Won Silver. Why Were We Looking at Her Jewelry?](https://sansublogs.com/ancy-sojan-won-silver-why-were-we-looking-at-her-jewelry/): Ancy Sojan braved a slippery field to win Asian Games silver, missing gold by just 2 cm. Yet instead of celebrating her achievement, people chose to troll her jewelry and appearance. - [It Was Just an Ice Candy, But I Will Never Forget Her Smile](https://sansublogs.com/small-act-of-kindness-million-dollar-smile/): It was just an ice candy, but the million-dollar smile it brought to a little girl's face has stayed with me for three years. - [When The Sound of Music Suddenly Disappeared](https://sansublogs.com/the-sound-of-music-disappeared-from-ott/): When The Sound of Music suddenly disappeared from my OTT platform, I worried about my little one's favorite movie. Thankfully, YouTube came to the rescue. - [The Devil Wears Prada 2 Review: An Honest Review of Why I Liked It](https://sansublogs.com/the-devil-wears-prada-2-review/): I am a huge Meryl Streep fan, so I had every reason to anxiously wait for The Devil Wears Prada 2. Here is my honest review of why I loved it, from the performances and message to the incredible fashion. - [How to Regain Your Fashion Sense After Delivery: A Practical Postpartum Clothing Guide](https://sansublogs.com/postpartum-fashion-clothing-essentials/): I prepared almost everything for my baby before delivery, but I forgot one important thing: my own postpartum clothing. Here are the essentials I wish I had planned for. - [What a Dentist’s Chair Taught Me About Pausing, Remembering, and Being Grateful](https://sansublogs.com/dentist-visit-life-lessons/): What started as a stressful dentist visit turned into an unexpected journey through memories, motherhood, family, and gratitude. - [If AI Were Going to End the World, It Would Have By Now](https://sansublogs.com/ai-end-world-2030/): AI ending humanity by 2030 is a growing fear. But is it realistic? A personal look at AI risks, human responsibility, and why I believe we should question the doomsday predictions. - [Where Did Our Conscience Go? The Police Too?](https://sansublogs.com/police-accountability/): When the innocent are beaten in the name of law and order, it raises a deeper question about police accountability and how citizens are treated. - [We Share the Space. Do We Remember That?](https://sansublogs.com/civic-sense-personal-convenience/): A woman biker's courage made me question something bigger: where has our civic sense gone? Are we becoming too focused on personal convenience to care about others? - [When Strangers' Pain Becomes Our Own](https://sansublogs.com/why-some-news-stays-with-you/): Some news stories stay with us long after we close the newspaper. A personal reflection on empathy, justice, journalism, and finding hope in good news. - [Loneliness Is Not Being Alone; It Is the Feeling of Being Lost](https://sansublogs.com/loneliness-feeling-of-being-lost/): Loneliness is not simply the absence of people. You can be surrounded by many and still feel lost. It is a feeling of having no one to care for you or no one who truly needs you - [The Tears of the Man in the Portico.](https://sansublogs.com/the-tears-of-the-man-in-the-portico/): A man sits alone in a portico, carrying emotions that words cannot express. The Tears of the Man in the Portico is a reflection on silent pain, loneliness, and the struggles we often fail to notice in others. - [I Wonder: Is Motherhood Hereditary? What I Inherited From My Mother](https://sansublogs.com/what-i-inherited-from-my-mother/): Motherhood has made me look at my own mother differently. I often wonder how much of the way I mother today comes from what I watched, learned, and inherited from her. - [8 Essentials While You Travel With a 1-Year-Old Infant](https://sansublogs.com/traveling-with-a-1-year-old/): Traveling with a 1 year old can be challenging, especially when you are away from home. Here are the essential things to carry and practical lessons from my experience traveling with my daughter. - [One Day, People Will Get Used to AI Too](https://sansublogs.com/people-will-get-used-to-ai/): We once feared computers would take away ordinary people's jobs. Today, we work alongside them every day. AI may be the next technology we learn to live and work with. - [Nursery Rhymes I Feel Uncomfortable Teaching My Baby](https://sansublogs.com/controversial-nursery-rhymes/): grew up singing nursery rhymes without questioning their meaning. But as a mother, I now think twice about the messages some of these familiar songs may carry. - [My Life Is a Testimony to the Existence of a Living God, Jesus](https://sansublogs.com/my-life-is-a-testimony-to-the-existence-of-a-living-god/): At 44, after years of infertility treatments, miscarriages, and four major surgeries, I was told I would probably never become a mother. Yet, through prayer, unwavering faith, and God's perfect timing, I welcomed my baby girl. This is my personal testimony of how Jesus turned what seemed impossible into reality. - [I Think I'm a Good Questioner.](https://sansublogs.com/the-art-of-asking-questions/): I wasn't always someone who asked questions. Growing up shy, I often stayed silent even when something didn't feel right. Looking back, I realized how much I had missed by not speaking up. In this personal reflection, I explore why asking better questions has transformed my life, improved my communication, and become one of the most valuable skills in the age of AI. - [Why Arijit Singh Stands Apart from the Rest](https://sansublogs.com/why-arijit-singh-stands-apart/): Many singers have beautiful voices, but very few combine extraordinary talent with genuine humility and the courage to stand by their convictions. Here's why Arijit Singh continues to inspire me—not just through his songs, but through the person he appears to be. - [The Teachers I Never Forgot](https://sansublogs.com/the-teachers-i-never-forgot/): Some teachers leave with a goodbye. Others stay with us forever. From a goodbye kiss in kindergarten to words that broke my confidence and a professor who changed my life, this is a deeply personal journey through the teachers who shaped me, reminding us that children never forget how a teacher made them feel. - [What Gen Z Taught Us Today](https://sansublogs.com/what-gen-z-taught-us-today-jantar-mantar-protest/): This opinion piece reflects on the Jantar Mantar protest and what it revealed about India's young generation. From resilience and unity to courage and hope, it is a personal account of why the movement restored my faith in democracy and the future of India. - [It Takes a Lot to Be Sanju Samson](https://sansublogs.com/it-takes-a-lot-to-be-sanju-samson/): India has no shortage of cricketing talent, but talent alone does not guarantee opportunities. This opinion piece reflects on Sanju Samson's journey, his patience, the controversies surrounding his selection, and why merit should remain the foundation of Indian cricket. - [Has Shah Rukh Khan Forgotten the Responsibility That Comes with Fame?](https://sansublogs.com/shah-rukh-khan-celeb-responsibility/): Celebrities are more than entertainers—they are role models to millions. This opinion piece explores how fame brings responsibility, from inspiring hope to influencing harmful habits, using examples like Cristiano Ronaldo, Lance Armstrong, Keanu Reeves, and Shah Rukh Khan. - [Their Pain, My Pain Too: What It Means to Sacrifice for Your Country](https://sansublogs.com/sacrifice-for-your-country/): Most of us express our concern for the country from the comfort of our homes. But true patriotism often demands sacrifice. This personal reflection explores what it means to stand with fellow citizens through the example of Sonam Wangchuk's hunger strike and the courage of those willing to risk everything for others. - [Has the Indian Press Lost Its Voice?](https://sansublogs.com/freedom-of-the-press-in-india/): The press has the power to shape a nation's future, but only when it remains independent, courageous, and accountable. In this personal opinion piece, I reflect on the changing landscape of Indian journalism, the importance of a healthy press, and why democracy depends on media that serves the people rather than those in power. - [Three AI Models Reviewed My Writing. Here's What They Said.](https://sansublogs.com/three-ai-models-reviewed-my-writing/): What happens when three leading AI models critique your writing? I asked ChatGPT, Gemini, and Claude for an honest review, and their feedback revealed surprising strengths, recurring patterns, and one valuable lesson every writer can learn. - [Two Minutes Late, A Lifetime of Dreams Lost](https://sansublogs.com/two-minutes-late-exam/): A heartbreaking account of students denied entry to an examination for being just two minutes late, and why compassion should have a place alongside rules in government exams. - [The Boy from Madeira Who Never Gave Up: The Inspiring Story of Cristiano Ronaldo](https://sansublogs.com/boy-from-madeira-cristiano-ronaldo-inspiring-story/): Cristiano Ronaldo's journey from the streets of Madeira to global football greatness is a story of resilience, sacrifice, discipline, and dreams that refused to die. Discover the inspiring life of the boy who never gave up. - [Why All This Drama If FIFA Were to Favor Just One Team and One Player?](https://sansublogs.com/no-one-should-be-allowed-to-influence-fifa/): Football belongs to the world, not to one team, one player, or one official. This opinion piece reflects on perceived FIFA bias, the responsibility of football's leaders, controversial refereeing decisions, and why even the perception of outside influence can damage trust in the beautiful game. - [Why Ronaldo Cannot Be Messi, Neither Can Messi Be Ronaldo. So, Why Compare Who Is the Greater Legend?](https://sansublogs.com/ronaldo-vs-messi-no-comparison/): Cristiano Ronaldo and Lionel Messi are two of the greatest footballers the world has ever seen. Instead of debating who is better, this article explores why they cannot be compared. Each possesses unique strengths, personalities, and legacies that have transformed football forever. - [The Rich-Poor Divide Is Growing Too Wide in the World's Most Populous Country](https://sansublogs.com/rich-poor-divide-india/): India's economic growth has created immense wealth, but it has also widened the gap between the rich and the poor. This article explores why rising inequality should concern every citizen, what the Bible says about wealth and poverty, and why creating equal opportunities, not making the rich poorer, is the real solution. - [Mahatma Gandhi Is Alive](https://sansublogs.com/mahatma-gandhi-legacy/): Mahatma Gandhi dedicated his life to India's freedom, but that dedication came at a personal cost. While the nation remembers his extraordinary sacrifices, his wife and children often lived with his absence. Behind the Father of the Nation was a family that quietly made sacrifices of its own. - [Is Yoga a Replacement for Traditional Exercise?](https://sansublogs.com/3383-2/): Has yoga replaced traditional exercise, or is it simply the latest fitness trend? This article explores the physical benefits, the role of PR in yoga's popularity, and why some Christians choose traditional exercise over yoga based on their faith and convictions. - [It's Difficult to Remain Non-Superstitious: A Christian Perspective](https://sansublogs.com/its-difficult-to-remain-non-superstitious-a-christian-perspective/): Superstitions have quietly become part of everyday life—even among Christians. Through personal experiences and biblical reflections, this article explores why complete trust in God leaves no room for luck charms, astrology, or superstitious practices. - [The Garden Was Open to All, but Not Equal for All.](https://sansublogs.com/the-garden-was-open-to-all-but-not-equal-for-all/): A simple family outing to a public garden turned into an unexpected lesson on unequal treatment. What started as excitement over capturing memories with my daughter ended with questions about fairness, transparency, and why the same rules don't always apply to everyone. - [If variety is the spice of life, garam masala is the spice that brings Indian dishes to life.](https://sansublogs.com/garam-masala-spice-of-indian-cooking/): People say variety is the spice of life. In my kitchen, that variety comes in the form of garam masala. From everyday meals to experimental recipes, this humble spice somehow finds its way into almost everything I cook. - [I Dream of a Day When Women Can Take a Midnight Stroll Without Fear](https://sansublogs.com/i-dream-of-a-day-when-women-can-take-a-midnight-stroll-without-fear/): Women deserve the freedom to walk safely at any hour. A personal perspective on rape, consent, justice, media responsibility, and societal change. - [After 50 Years of Marriage, She Still Lives With Regret](https://sansublogs.com/after-50-years-of-marriage-she-still-lives-with-regret/): After fifty years of marriage, one woman's lingering regret reveals how words left unspoken can shape a lifetime. A heartfelt reflection on love, missed opportunities, forgiveness, and the importance of expressing our feelings before it's too late. - [The Death of a Relative Is Painful, But It Has a Brighter Side Too](https://sansublogs.com/the-death-of-a-relative-is-painful-but-it-has-a-brighter-side-too/): Losing a loved one is never easy, yet grief often reveals the strength of family, cherished memories, and the deeper meaning of life. A heartfelt reflection on finding hope amid loss. - [At 45, I dream like a teenager](https://sansublogs.com/at-45-i-dream-like-a-teenager/): Dreams don't have an age limit. A personal reflection on chasing ambitions at 45, embracing new beginnings, and proving that it's never too late to dream like a teenager. - [The Epstein Conundrum: A Problem Bill Gates Can't Ctrl+Alt+Delete](https://sansublogs.com/the-epstein-conundrum-a-problem-bill-gates-cant-ctrlaltdelete/): The Jeffrey Epstein controversy continues to cast a long shadow over powerful figures. This article examines its lasting impact on reputation, public trust, and the questions that refuse to disappear. - [ChatGPT for Blogging: What I Like and What Annoys Me](https://sansublogs.com/chatgpt-for-blogging-what-i-like-and-what-annoys-me/): ChatGPT has transformed the way I blog, but it's far from perfect. An honest take on what I love, what frustrates me, and how I use AI without losing my own voice. - [A Dress Never Returned, Nor Was the Courtesy](https://sansublogs.com/a-dress-never-returned-nor-was-the-courtesy/): A simple borrowed dress became a lesson in respect, gratitude, and courtesy. A personal reflection on how small gestures—and the lack of them—can leave a lasting impression. - [Oh boy! My Country's Obsession for a Boy Child Refuses to Die](https://sansublogs.com/oh-boy-my-countrys-obsession-for-a-boy-child-refuses-to-die/): A heartfelt reflection on society's enduring preference for sons and the emotional toll it takes on families. A call to value every child equally, regardless of gender. - [Can Someone Tell Mr. Trump to Save His Image by Stopping the Iran War? Enough With the Pacifying Promises](https://sansublogs.com/can-someone-tell-mr-trump-to-save-his-image-by-stopping-the-iran-war-enough-with-the-pacifying-promises/): A personal reflection on the escalating Iran conflict, political leadership, and the human cost of war. A call for diplomacy over promises that too often give way to devastating consequences. - [Why I Can Watch The Sound of Music a Hundred Times With My Daughter](https://sansublogs.com/why-i-can-watch-the-sound-of-music-a-hundred-times-with-my-daughter/): Some films never grow old. A personal reflection on why The Sound of Music continues to bring joy across generations and why watching it with my daughter has become a timeless experience. - [A Democracy Without Opposition](https://sansublogs.com/a-democracy-without-opposition/): Can a democracy truly thrive without a strong opposition? This thought-provoking article explores the vital role of dissent, accountability, and healthy debate in protecting democratic values. - [Like Leftover Food, You’re Not Finished Yet. There’s Still Magic Left in You](https://sansublogs.com/like-leftover-food-youre-not-finished-yet-theres-still-magic-left-in-you/): Feeling overlooked or left behind? This uplifting reflection reminds us that, like leftover food with untapped potential, we all have value, purpose, and the ability to create something beautiful from life's second chances. - [Confessions of a First-Time Mom: The Little Things Nobody Told Me About Motherhood](https://sansublogs.com/confessions-of-a-first-time-mom-the-little-things-nobody-told-me-about-motherhood/): Motherhood is filled with beautiful moments and countless surprises no one prepares you for. A heartfelt reflection on the little challenges, joys, and lessons that come with becoming a first-time mom. - [Long Before the Angrez Sarkar, There Was Christianity in India](https://sansublogs.com/long-before-the-angrez-sarkar-there-was-christianity-in-india/): Many believe Christianity came to India with the British, but its roots go back much further. Explore the rich history of one of the world's oldest Christian traditions and its centuries-old presence in India. - [We Are Conditioned to Compare Everything](https://sansublogs.com/humans-are-conditioned-to-compare-everything/): We compare our lives, achievements, possessions, and even our happiness with others. This reflective piece explores why comparison comes so naturally and how breaking free from it can lead to a more fulfilling life. - [The Man Who Sold His Wife](https://sansublogs.com/the-man-who-sold-his-wife/): A thought-provoking reflection on how greed, desperation, and broken values can push people to unimaginable choices. A story that challenges our conscience and reminds us of the true worth of human dignity. - [The people who once felt like obstacles in life later felt like protection.](https://sansublogs.com/obstacles-in-life/): Sometimes, the biggest obstacles in life aren't situations—they're people. A reflection on dealing with negativity, criticism, and those who stand in the way of your growth. ⭐ - [I Flunked the Exam. Blinded by Shame, I Couldn’t Face People or Even Accept Myself](https://sansublogs.com/i-flunked-the-exam-blinded-by-shame-i-couldnt-face-people-or-even-accept-myself/): Failing an exam felt like the end of the world, but it became one of life's greatest lessons. A personal story about shame, resilience, self-acceptance, and finding the courage to move forward. - [Why I Chose a WordPress.org Website Over WordPress.com](https://sansublogs.com/why-i-chose-a-wordpress-org-website-over-wordpress-com/): Confused between WordPress.org and WordPress.com? Here's why I chose WordPress.org and how it gave me the freedom, flexibility, and control to build my website my way. - [Australia Must Put National Security Before Political Symbolism](https://sansublogs.com/why-australia-must-put-national-security-before-political-symbolism/): Australia must put national security and public safety before political symbolism or image-driven decisions. - [An Ode to My Mother, A Superwoman on Mother’s Day](https://sansublogs.com/remembering-my-mother-a-superwoman-on-mothers-day/): A heartfelt tribute to my mother—the woman whose unconditional love, quiet strength, and endless sacrifices shaped the person I am today. ❤️ - [Thought of Biryani, Lured by Free Marketing Deals, Ended up with McDonald’s Combo Offer: Another Compromise](https://sansublogs.com/thought-of-biryani-lured-by-free-marketing-deals-ended-up-with-mcdonalds-combo-offer-another-compromise/): A reflective take on how discounts and “limited offers” create the illusion of saving money while quietly making us compromise on quality, satisfaction, and even our real desires. ## Pages - [Medium Articles](https://sansublogs.com/medium-articles/): Welcome to my collection of Medium articles, where I write about a variety of topics that interest me both personally and professionally. - [Blog](https://sansublogs.com/blog-posts/): Explore personal stories, lifestyle thoughts, digital trends, creativity, branding, and real-world perspectives through my eyes and experiences. - [Terms of Service](https://sansublogs.com/terms-of-service/): Welcome to Sansu Blogs. 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